The Biggest Turn Off In A Date
The little mistakes we do are the once that end up costing us dearly. While looking for date, it is the small errors that we do that determines the course of the friendship or relationship. We need to be very cautious when it comes to the way we interact with each other especially when you are getting to know each other. You have to put the best of you in order to succeed; that is, you’re a game. For this blog, we are going to delve around some of the things that becomes a turn off while dating or in a date and end up costing your relationship.
- self-centered
While going on a date, never be selfish. For some people, they are too proud of themselves that they want to be treated very important than the rest. Why on the date, they want to be at the center if attentions and the rest they mean nothing to them. You invite a lady on a date and instead of treating her right and with respect, you expect her to do that. Dude, it does not happen like that. You invited her out right then you are the one supposed to be the gentleman since you are the one interested in her and not her with you. So play your cards right.
- Too possessive
First date means you know very little about the person you are taking out or you are going on a date with. As such, you have to play it cool. Do not be that kind of a person you take someone out and with no time you start holding their hands while walking or forcing a hug. Furthermore, you might find the manner less time where they even want to kiss you or instead you go to their place on a first date and moreover it is at the middle of the night. Such things are great turn off to most people; be it a lady or a gentleman. Being respectful and maintaining a comfortable distance would make your date successful and fulfilling.
- Using awful words
While on a date, be careful with what comes from your mouth. Do not be too comfortable that you end up saying words or things that would be a turn off. Instead of saying words that could be offensive or make your date uncomfortable, it is better you just remaining silent or change the topic. Try to be funny and cheesy at the same time but not too cheesy. Whatever you say can either make or break your date.
